Am i being too needy by wanting this from my boyfriend? :(?

Relationships tend to change and some of the shine can wear off after a few years. It's really important that you talk to him the next time you see him. Not over the phone or through text. Write a list of ten things you need from him and ten things you want from him. Take your time writing your list and make sure the things you write are important to you. When you get a chance to talk to him let him know how much you care about him and that you thought it might be a good idea to go over it with him so he can have an understanding about what you are feeling. Encourage him to do the same. It's interesting to find out that what you think your partner needs or wants is usually somewhat different than what you imagined. This might sound corny, but believe me it works. Even if you don't feel comfortable showing him this list, do it for yourself. It will help you identify the areas that are lacking in the relationship for you so when you talk to him you'll know what you'd like to bring up. Don't make it into an argument. Just talk to him and see if he can open up about how he's been feeling as well.